Category Archives: Romance

“………devoted to the top romantic meetings which were sent in by readers

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The winning entry was forwarded by David Bibeau. Congratulations to David (and his wife, Mary)!

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http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/romance_retired/9509

Relationship Search Tips for Singles

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There is no way to avoid taking emotional risks when dating. Give yourself support, and seek out support from others as you do this. Be gentle with yourself. Get extra help (counseling) if you need it as you would for any other important area in your life. Good luck.

Plan out dating as you would any other important area of your life. Commit yourself to taking the time and energy to finding people that are right for you to date. Don’t expect for it to be bumpy, but don’t be surprised if it is.

Remember dating is a numbers game. You may need to meet several (10-20) new people before finding someone that you really click with. EXTRA TIP: Every time you go to an event or meeting have some goals in mind such as introducing yourself to three people, starting two conversations, smiling and making eye contact with everyone you meet. This will help you greatly in your search for a healthy relationship.

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How to Totally Rock a First Date

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First, forget about all the clueless advice you’ve ever heard before. Next, get ready to blow him away . . . and actually enjoy yourself while you’re at it.

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http://bit.ly/1PTjeP

 

Office Romance: Truth or Dare?

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With increasing frequency, employees interested in dating are toying with the notion that the optimal place to meet their potential spouse or life partner is at work.  And it seems to make sense, considering employees spend a third or more of their time each day at work.  Many young professionals are introduced to co-workers with similar interests and ambitions, develop relationships with them, and then wonder whether an office romance is even permitted according to company policy.

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http://www.thegalatasgroup.com/2011/02/08/office-romance-truth-or-dare/#

Understanding the realities and dilemmas of office romances

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If you’ve ever been involved in an office romance, you know in the beginning, it’s all furtive glances across the conference room, quick kisses in a hidden stairwell, and coy emails sent several times a day. That’s the beginning or the “honeymoon period” when everything smells like roses. But what happens if and when things start to go bad?

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http://www.helium.com/items/1342532-understanding-the-realities-and-dilemmas-of-the-office-romance

Six Tips for Dating a Colleague

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Recent studies have shown that more employees than ever are putting in overtime, working hard at the office from dawn until dusk to make more money and impress their superiors. Since most of our time is spent at work, it’s a natural conclusion that many of us will find love at work, but it isn’t always as simple as that. When you make the decision to date a colleague, you have to consider your job as well as the other employees.

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http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/262866/six_tips_for_dating_a_colleague.html

Surviving a First Date

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So you’ve finally taken that first step and asked someone out for a date. Even better, they’ve agreed. A time and a place have been arranged, you meet up and have the perfect date. Smashing!

But how do you get to that point? What preparations should you make in advance? In other words, what advice do you have for someone about to go on their first date?

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A848586

Who Is Behind the Mask? (Even though it’s scary, everyone longs to be seen, to be known)

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Dr Rick Hanson writes as follows: “Most of us wear a kind of mask, a persona that hides our deepest thoughts and feelings, and presents a polished, controlled face to the world.

To be sure, a persona is a good thing to have. For example, meetings at work, holidays with the in-laws, or a first date are usually not the best time to spill your guts. Just because you’re selective about what you reveal to the world does not mean you’re insincere; phoniness is only when we lie about what’s really going on inside.

Much of the time, we interact mask-to-mask with other people. There’s a place for that. But remember times when someone saw through your mask to the real you, the person back behind your eyes. If you’re like me, those times were both unnerving and wonderful.”

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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-wise-brain/201103/who-is-behind-the-mask